I feel like every few minutes my phone goes off, when I look I find yet another text message asking me if I want to meet up and hang out. 90% of the time, if I do say yes, the person in question will keep pushing back the time until it becomes so late that I give up and go to bed or make other plans. When they are serious about hanging out.. it seems like all they really want to do is come over and try to get some. If one of those cases is not true.. then I’m so tired that I don’t feel like getting attractive enough to go out into public and prance about for a few hours. Battling the urge to drink away the awkwardness of most “meet ups” because I have to drive myself home.
Eh.. whatever happened to being asked out on a date? Or hell.. being asked to go out with someone more then a few hours in advance. I’m looking for a guy who actually wants to make plans to go out later this week or the next. Not necessarily a serious relationship, or anything like that. Just an old fashioned pre-planned date. Not a meet up. Not a hook up. A date. Where the asker picks up the askee and takes them somewhere to do something that does directly involve a rubber and the friction of hips.
I’ll keep hoping. Until then.. I guess if I want some social contact.. I’m stuck with “meet ups”.
